How often do you take care of yourself by asking friends, family and co-workers for help?
Today is my 50th birthday and two friends persuaded me to organize a big do. *Only if you’ll help,* I insisted. About 10 friends are pitching in to make the party fun and memorable.
I realize it’s hard for some people to let other people take charge. For instance Dad asked about the live music at the birthday party. He spoke faster and in a higher pitch each time I replied, *I don’t know, Dad. Liz is organizing it.*
Sara reminds us that it’s okay to ask for help, http://sarahealy.com/index.php/2009/04/30/its-okay-to-ask-for-help/.


